{"id":5018,"date":"2013-11-02T02:11:15","date_gmt":"2013-11-02T09:11:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/?p=5018"},"modified":"2013-11-02T02:11:15","modified_gmt":"2013-11-02T09:11:15","slug":"disappointment-requires-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/2013\/11\/02\/disappointment-requires-expectations\/","title":{"rendered":"disappointment requires expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pretty neat watching all these folks who weren&#8217;t going to go see <i>Ender&#8217;s Game<\/i> because of OSC&#8217;s queers-must-be-kept-illegal NOM-board-membership Russian-anti-gay-law history posting their <i>Ender&#8217;s Game<\/i> reactions tonight. Not all of them, but&#8230; many.<\/p>\n<p>Peter David is leading a charge already to get it a Hugo, and says if it doesn&#8217;t it&#8217;ll be proof that fandom doesn&#8217;t &#8220;have the balls&#8221; to defy the dreaded Political Correctness that apparently rules it.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been blocking a <em>lot<\/em> of Facebook posts this evening. I&#8217;m expecting I&#8217;ll have to unfollow some Tumblr people for a bit, too, &#8217;till the 65% it&#8217;s getting on Rotten Tomatoes catches up to it and it fades away.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe I should just stay off the net a while. Because here&#8217;s the thing: I realise that, for most of fandom, a couple of hours of entertainment outranks not supporting <a href=\"http:\/\/solarbird.tumblr.com\/post\/65677577867\/ryface-orson-scott-card-s-payout-for-the\">a writer<\/a> who actively works to make law against me, and who believes I should be illegal, who has a history of being onboard with the queers==pedophiles newtype blood libel, whose organisation lobbied in Russia for their anti-gay crackdown laws, and all that.<\/p>\n<p>I get that. I have for a long time. This is not a new realisation. I don&#8217;t much <em>like<\/em> it, but I get it. This has just been a reminder.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not even <em>that<\/em> upset; disappointment requires expectations that I don&#8217;t have. I mean, obviously, I&#8217;m <em>displeased<\/em>, but this isn&#8217;t exactly shaking my world. I know better.<\/p>\n<p>But being reminded of it every time I check my web browser? That, I <em>really<\/em> don&#8217;t like.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m just gonna say: if you go see this thing? I don&#8217;t want to hear about it. His politics and his political friends and allies and his organisation and the organisations they support have been trying to <em>destroy me my entire life<\/em>. His <em>side<\/em> has assaulted me, sent me to hospital, waged newtype blood libel campaigns against me, run sometimes-successful initiative campaigns against me, forced me into a political life out of sheer self-preservation &#8211; they have quite literally cost me <em>blood and treasure<\/em> &#8211; and I&#8217;ve got one hell of a lot of trench warfare I can go off about if I have to.<\/p>\n<p>And I don&#8217;t fuckin&#8217; want to.<\/p>\n<p>So if you&#8217;re gonna go see this thing &#8211; okay, <em>whatever<\/em>. Me, I&#8217;ll just hang over here, mostly offline for a few days; I&#8217;ve got a lot of shit to catch up with anyway. But you? Do me this much of a favour: don&#8217;t fuckin&#8217; come telling me about it. Don&#8217;t fuckin&#8217; come rationalising it to me. I don&#8217;t want to hear about it. I don&#8217;t want to hear about what donations you&#8217;re pledging to make to &#8220;counterbalance&#8221; it, I don&#8217;t care if you &#8220;separate the art from the artist,&#8221; I don&#8217;t care about your reasons: I <em>don&#8217;t want to hear them<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Just. Don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>And once the novelty wears off, we can hopefully just forget about this whole thing.<\/p>\n<p>Comments disabled. Because leaving them open&#8230; that&#8217;d just be a little too tempting, wouldn&#8217;t it? Yeah.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pretty neat watching all these folks who weren&#8217;t going to go see Ender&#8217;s Game because of OSC&#8217;s queers-must-be-kept-illegal NOM-board-membership Russian-anti-gay-law history posting their Ender&#8217;s Game reactions tonight. Not all of them, but&#8230; many. Peter David is leading a charge already to get it a Hugo, and says if it doesn&#8217;t it&#8217;ll be proof that fandom [&#038;hellip<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5018","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5018","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5018"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5018\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5018"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5018"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crimeandtheforcesofevil.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5018"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}